Happy Family Tips

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Assalamu ‘alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. ‘Aisha quoted’ Riders are asked about the morality of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam and he replied, “Virtue, he is the Qur’an.” [Saheeh. Reported by Muslim (no. 746), Ahmad (VI/54, 91, 111, 188, 216), an-Nisaa'i (III/199-200), Ibn Majah (no. 2333), and ad-Darimi (I / 345-346)]

O my brother, know that the role of parents in domestic life is very important in guide in shaping the underlying family of good moral and doctrinal camps. And especially here, is the father figure role in guiding the family with good morals, which will be given to wife and his children. because that task can be a father exemplifies the attributes of good and noble to teach morals to his wife and children.

Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam following shows the priority of educating children, “What a man will be exalted rank in heaven (future), then he asked,’ How can I achieve all this? Then say to him: (It all) caused istigfar (request for forgiveness of God which is always spoken by) your son for you. ”

O my brother know, that a father in the sphere of family life is like a tree, why would I say such a tree? Example.

1. Father, in domestic life is like roots of trees, hence if the roots were flourishing, so it was a twig and fruit flourish and its branches were strong and its fruit will produce ripe fruit and good. and if when on the contrary, if the roots did not grow fast so its twigs and fruits were not fertile it will not actually produce anything. Thus all the father figure is very important to give good properties, then when a father did not gave the good example for his family and did not teach moral and doctrinal camps for his family so much that has happened lead to separation (stranded in the middle of the road) .

Each of you is leader and will be held accountable for their leadership, a priest is the leader and will be held accountable for their leadership and a man is a leader in the family and will be held responsible for their leadership, and women are in charge of her husband’s house and will be held to their responsibilities and assistant is responsible to the property and the employer will be held accountable for their leadership. “(Agreed ‘alayhi)

One came to the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam, and asked, “O Messenger of Allah, what are my rights?” The Prophet replied, “Giving him a good name, good adab educate, and give him a good position (in hatirnu).” (Narrated Aththusi ).

2. Mother. My mother’s role here is like saying like a tree branch, when the roots die, the tree will not grow fast, but if its rating was still strong tree is a tree branch task is to nourish her back to the roots and fruit that is dead, and the task tree branch It seeks to grow the tree to remain fertile and fresh fruit, then this is where it is no less important task of motherhood. because of the busyness of a father menacari provision to meet family obligations, then the mother’s role here to give good examples, and advising the fruit of his heart, for advising the baby’s need to need affection and tenderness of the mother.

Love your children and you care about is them. When you promise something to them stick. Surely they know only YOU will give them sustenance. (Narrated Ath-Thahawi).

3. Fruit. fruit is the role of a child. This fruit will flourish if its roots and branches also grow fast, you know my brother and root task can meyuburkan rantinglah ripe fruit and good. Habibi and Habibah then know, the duty of a father and mother is very important to give cotoh-cotoh a good nature and character to the fruit of his heart in domestic life, know the nature of children is the nature of the parents, as her parents orng mengajarakan to the fruit heart, good nature and good morals must always be on guard in domestic life, so that households in the underlying love of God will be maintained in our daily lives in sebebkan because our devotion to God. know good morals of a child is a treasure more valuable than just a treasure that is now being obsesikan parents.

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that he said: Messenger of Allah sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was asked about the reasons that cause most people go to heaven? He replied, “Takwa Allah and the noble morality.” He also asked about the reasons that cause most people go to hell, then he replied, “The mouth and genitals” (Narrated by Tirmidhi, saheeh hasan hadeeth).

Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali may Allaah have mercy saying, “The Messenger of certain character states ordered separately (though it includes part of the pious) because most people thought that piety was just struggling with the problem of fulfilling the rights of God and not dealing with the fulfillment of His servants … “.” And those who fulfill the rights of both God and the rights of a fellow servant with both is something very rarely found, except in self prophets and the people who shidiq / right … “(Jami’ul ‘Ulum wal Hikam , pp. 237).

Before the late start this time to instill morals are your children, from the simple things:

A. sample greetings.

From Abu Hurairah said that the Messenger shallallahu’alaihi radhiyallahu’anhu wasallam said:

“It is not you guys go to heaven until you believe and you will not believe until you love each other. And will you show me something if you do then you will love each other? Sprinkle greetings of you. “(Narrated by Muslim)

B. Teach honesty.

From Ibn Mas’ud that the Prophet shallallahu’alaihi radhiyallahu’anhu wasallam said:

“Seize honesty because honesty truly show the goodness and kindness shown to paradise. Someone is always honest and maintain honesty to the carrying on God’s side, including people who are honest. And avoid false because the lie showed to the crime and the crime show to hell. Someone always lied and lied to get used to writing on the side of God as a liar. “(Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)

Allaah says through oral Lukman:

“And (remember) when Luqman said to his son, at the time he gave a lesson to him, ‘O my son do not ascribe (God) actually ascribe God is truly great kezhaliman.’ And we have enjoined on man (do good) to two father’s mother’s parents, his mother had conceived him in a weak condition which waxes and weaning in two years, thanks to Me and to your father’s mother, only kepadaKulah return. And if they strive to ascribe to me something that you have no knowledge, then do not follow them and pergaulilah world with both good and follow the path of people who come back to me, then just to me is your return, then tell you what you were doing . (Luqman said), ‘O my son, if indeed there is (an act) as heavy as mustard seed and be in stone or in the heavens or the earth Allah will bring it (in return). Surely, Allah is Subtle, the Knower. My son, be steadfast in prayer and ask the (human) doing good and forbid (them) from an unjust act and be patient over what happened to you. Lo! That includes things that are required (by God). And do not turn your face from humans (for pride) and do not berjaln earth with dignity. Allah loves not those who are arrogant boasting. And you simplify the running and lunakkanlah voice. Verily evil voice is the voice of donkeys. ‘”(Surah Luqman: 13-19)

O my brother we can take an example from the interaction of children today, so many kids today who fall by the passion in him also to already do not have a good nature and good morals. why I say it with our desires? Since the time that children aged under five his mother and father did not give examples of good morals and aqidah to his son, then in his sebebkan common nowadays many teenagers who damaged his character, even many murders occur between parents and children, because all that in his role sebebkan lack of a father and mother of his way to educate children with good morals, it is often emerge events like this, but who is to blame in cases like this? Which should not blame the parents in her why not just from the age of the children were given the religious sciences, know if we teach to the baby from an early age by providing good morals and his aqidah etc. then at the time the child enters the teenage years so he will know where the good must be done and what is bad must be away.

Ibn Qoyyim may Allaah have mercy saying “children should be kept away from excessive in the food, talk, sleep and mingle with the sinful act, because the loss would be obtained from these things and cause the loss of goodness of the world and the hereafter. Children should be kept away from the danger of lust abdomen and genitals because if a child has been affected by dirt lust will be damaged and destroyed. How many beloved children become damaged due to negligence in education and coaching to help their parents and even falling into lust with the assumption that as an expression of attention and affection to the son when his life has been a humiliating and destroy the children so that parents do not take advantage of the child and not take advantage of good kid in the world and the Hereafter. If you pay close attention the most damaged children stems from the parents. ”

Allaah says, “O ye who believe, guard yourselves and your families from hell fire which fuel is men and stones.” (Surat at-Tahriim: 6)

Ali ibn Abi Talib said that a person either if a certain character can avoid the forbidden matters, carrying out a lawful and responsible to the family.

. O Brother of the glorified Allaah, be aware that children who had just been born of his first pure, clean, and have no sin even though the dust was only one point, he does not have it. But the child will lose his purity of heart, the net has become dirty, so that was not a sin but a pile of sins in result in errors from his parents, in his guide.

Know Accountability parents and sisters are both in this world or in akherat, but when the child is Baligh then they are responsible for themselves. One example of such responsibility is to nurture self and family from the Fire:

“O ye who believe, guard yourselves and your families from hell fire which fuel is men and stones, guardian angels who are not hard rough disobey Allah in what was told to them and always do what they’re told.” ( QS. At Tahrim: 6)

Shaykh ‘Abd al-Sa’di said: “Maintaining the self (the Fire) is to require for themselves to carry out the commands of God and away from His prohibitions, and repent of all acts that cause the wrath and punishment. As for maintaining his wife and children (from the fires of hell) is to educate and teach them (Islamic law), as well as forcing them to (execute) the command of God. Then a servant will not be saved (from the torment of Hell) unless he (really) implement the command of God (in this paragraph) to himself and the people who brought power and responsibility. ”

so please know that my brother is good morality in examplize from a parent to a child will give birth to generations of good, young generation who worship God, filial to his parents and paying attention to the rights of other Muslim brothers and sisters.

The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam said: “Verily among the people I love most and that his seat closer to me on the Day of Judgement is a good person akhlaqnya.” (Narrated by Tirmidhi. 2018, Saheeh)

Hopefully Useful

Wallohu a’lam bishowab.

Andi .Muhammad

Refrensi Hadist : adapted from the book of Al Maghribi bin As Said Al Maghribi

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